Day 5: Cull

IMG_1725Well, so far, so good. I am starting each day with some quiet time, just sitting. I am extending that quiet into my drive time, for at least fifteen minutes. And I have made it 24 hours without allowing my pantry to devolve into chaos.

Simplify, simplify….

The de-cluttering of the pantry yesterday got me to think about all the other drawers and closets that are overflowing with either things I don’t need or things I can’t ever find. For today’s project, I decided to cull through my three drawers of t-shirts. I do go to the gym a lot, so I do burn through workout clothes, but does anyone really need 63 t-shirts?

In reality, there’s a pretty small number of shirts that are in regular rotation. Then there are a few just for sleeping. To make matters worse: some of these shirts I probably will never wear again, but I have convinced myself that they have some sort of sentimental value (because nothing jogs the memory more than a torn, mildew-stained t-shirt from your undergraduate days, right?)

Now, I didn’t expect to get down to Thoreau’s Spartan-like standards for simplicity–not on a first go, at least. But if I could cull from 63 down to a number that would fit in one drawer–and a drawer that I could easily open and close without first stuffing down shirts–I would call it a success.

The first round was rather easy. I made three stacks:

  • Discard/Donate
  • Keep
  • Store as Souvenirs

I managed to discard 25 shirts without much thought, and set aside seven as souvenirs. The next go-around took a bit more thought. It’s interesting to note that the more “thought” I gave to these shirts, the more distracted I became…and the more I lost sight of the reason why I was cleaning house in the first place.

As a final tally, I allowed myself four “remembrance” shirts: a “Don’t Panic” t-shirt my brother gave me a few years before he died, a Howard Finster print, a t-shirt my kids decorated with their hand-prints when they were very young, and a Red Sox 2004 World Series Champions shirt. I also managed to discard an additional 14 shirts, bringing my t-shirt count down to 2o–about 1/3 of where I started, and all fitting in one drawer.

IMG_1731As with everything I have attempted so far, I am not claiming to make major strides here toward simplifying my days. All I am looking for are small steps, each of which hopefully will help me reduce unnecessary complexities and entanglements in my daily life–and inch me that much closer toward living deliberately.

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Day 4: Provide

IMG_1710Does this pantry drive you nuts? It drives me nuts.

Every single day.

I mean look at all that stuff, one thing piled on top of another, and nothing  within reach. Several times a day, I open up the pantry and cuss at the chaos, pull out whatever I need, and then quickly rearrange the piles to keep them from tumbling out onto the floor before I close the pantry doors. I reminds me of a line I once heard from a stand-up comedian:

Sure I’d like to lose weight, but what can one man do?

So this morning, I decided to simplify my provisions–discard what needed discarding and arrange the rest so that what I needed would be right there before my eyes.

IMG_1719I think the most interesting thing about this task was not so much discovering what I didn’t need, but rather seeing just how much I had. I have so much tea! I really can’t see why I would need to buy another box or bag until I use up what I have. And the same goes for pasta, and rice, and crackers, and so on….

In comparing these two pictures, you may not see what looks like a radical change–and I suppose it’s not. I really tried not to discard anything that I could use to prepare a meal in the near future–but a little attention to arrangement has eliminated a daily frustration and simplified my food prep, if only a little.

Sure, I could have called today’s entry “organize,” but I like the word “provide.” This little exercise has helped me to attend to what I already have, and to see abundance in place of clutter.

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Day 3: Quiet

As in: the verb.

I think my fifteen minutes of sitting yesterday (which I set aside for myself this morning as well) got me thinking about how pleasant it is to be in the quiet of the house in the morning, before anyone else has risen. I’ve noticed it before, in glances, but deliberate sitting helped bring that quiet more into focus. So I started to think about when and where else I might be able to turn down the volume on my day.

I have an average work commute–average for my metro area, that is, though certainly long by many standards. Normally, I have the radio on, listening to Morning Edition on the way in, and All Things Considered on the way home. If not, it’s Pandora, or a shuffle of my music library on my phone.

The car seemed like a natural choice for a controlled environment in which I could choose to quiet my day, if only for a few moments.

I don’t think I can commit to every morning and every afternoon without music or the news in the car (or conversation for that matter–I’m the morning driver for a carload of eighth graders). But certainly I can silence the music and chatter and reports of  the day for fifteen minutes, right?

So this morning, that’s the plan. Fifteen minutes. If it goes well, maybe I’ll make it to twenty.

And then maybe I can start to listen.

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Day 2: Sit

IMG_1708Every workday, I am up at 6 AM.

OK, my alarm goes off at 6 AM. Then I hit the snooze button. Nine minutes later, I get up.

Usually. Sometimes, it’s a two-snooze kind of morning.

Then I head downstairs, get the coffee going, get the lunches made for the kids, get the breakfast going, get me going… and so on.

It turns out that it takes nine minutes for my coffee maker to brew a pot of coffee: that’s the same amount of time it takes me to pretend it’s not really morning and roll over in bed.

One of my themes for the year is to monotask more. So today’s experiment in simplicity is going to be as simple as it can get. I am going to sit for the nine minutes it takes to brew a pot of coffee.

Big accomplishment, right?

Call it a morning meditation if you wish, but that’s my goal. Nine minutes: not for planning out the day, or making out a mental to-do list, or previewing/rerunning various real and imagined conversations in my head.

Just sitting.

And then, when the coffee is finished brewing, I’m going to pour a cup and sit some more… maybe six whole additional minutes to smell and taste that first cup of coffee, alone in the kitchen before anyone else is up, and before the rush of the day sweeps me along.

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Day 1: Read

Simplicity, simplicity, simplicity! I say, let your affairs be as two or three, and not a hundred or a thousand; instead of a million count half a dozen, and keep your accounts on your thumb-nail…. Simplify, simplify.

–Henry David Thoreau

Of course there is a certain irony in starting a blog that references Thoreau so directly–this is the same man, after all, who says he could “easily do without the post-office.” And by no means do I intend to romanticize Thoreau’s 800 days (give or take) on Walden as the epitome of simple living. Growing up in Concord, I heard plenty of tales of how Thoreau would walk back to his mother’s house when the rain got too bad at his cabin in the woods….

Still, it seems appropriate to kick off this year-long experiment with a nod of the head to Henry David Thoreau and a rereading of Walden–or at least Chapter Two:

We must learn to reawaken and keep ourselves awake, not by mechanical aids, but by an infinite expectation of the dawn, which does not forsake us in our soundest sleep. I know of no more encouraging fact than the unquestionable ability of man to elevate his life by a conscious endeavor. It is something to be able to paint a particular picture, or to carve a statue, and so to make a few objects beautiful; but it is far more glorious to carve and paint the very atmosphere and medium through which we look, which morally we can do. To affect the quality of the day, that is the highest of arts. Every man is tasked to make his life, even in its details, worthy of the contemplation of his most elevated and critical hour. If we refused, or rather used up, such paltry information as we get, the oracles would distinctly inform us how this might be done.

I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived. I did not wish to live what was not life, living is so dear; nor did I wish to practise resignation, unless it was quite necessary. I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life, to live so sturdily and Spartan-like as to put to rout all that was not life, to cut a broad swath and shave close, to drive life into a corner, and reduce it to its lowest terms, and, if it proved to be mean, why then to get the whole and genuine meanness of it, and publish its meanness to the world; or if it were sublime, to know it by experience, and be able to give a true account of it in my next excursion. For most men, it appears to me, are in a strange uncertainty about it, whether it is of the devil or of God, and have somewhat hastily concluded that it is the chief end of man here to “glorify God and enjoy him forever.”

The entirety of Walden is available at The Thoreau Reader site, courtesy of EServer at Iowa State University and The Thoreau Society. The block quote above comes from Chapter Two, “Where I Lived, and What I Lived For.”

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